Pro Tips on What to Do When You Get Engaged

Congratulations on your engagement!  You may be asking yourself, now what? Here is a list our professional event and wedding planning team at The Ebell suggests.

Celebrate: Take some time to savor the joy with your partner, family, and close friends. Whether it's a quiet dinner, a small gathering, or a big party, make sure to enjoy the moment.

Share the News: Inform your close friends and family about the engagement. You might want to do this in person, over the phone, or through a creative announcement on social media.

Set a Budget: Start discussing and setting a budget for your wedding. Establishing a budget early on will help guide your decisions throughout the planning process.

Discuss Wedding Plans: Have a conversation with your partner about your wedding vision, such as the size, style, and location. Discuss your preferences for the ceremony, reception, and any specific elements you both want. It's important to get on the same page in terms of your vision.

Choose a Date: While you don't need to set an exact date immediately, having a general timeframe can help in the planning process. Consider factors like seasons, availability, and personal preferences.

Research wedding venues. Consider the location, capacity, and style that aligns with your vision. In her Masterclass, celebrity wedding planner Mindy Weiss puts finding a venue at the top of her list! Why? Because the best venues book up fast. You will want to know if the venue you are dreaming about is available before you invest time planning around it.

Hire a Wedding Planner. This and finding your venue are tied for importance! Many venues like The Ebell require a planner and may have a preferred or exclusive list. The sooner you hire a planner, better. They will assist you with everything on this list and more.

Start Your Guest List: Begin compiling a list of potential guests. This will be crucial when selecting a venue and determining the size of your wedding.

Think About Themes and Colors: Begin to brainstorm wedding themes and color schemes. This will help guide your decisions when choosing decorations, flowers, and attire.

Discuss Priorities: Have a conversation about what aspects of the wedding are most important to both of you. This will help in prioritizing your budget and decision-making.

Most importantly, enjoy the journey and every moment of this special time in your lives together.

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